In Her Own Words
About her
I would describe myself as a highly independent, assertive, yet deeply empathetic woman. As a post-structuralist researcher who challenges systemic prejudice and institutional erasure, I thrive on intellectual challenge and appreciate true depth. I naturally prefer quiet, thoughtful atmospheres over loud environments. I have a profound appreciation for quality, art, culture, and the beauty in life.
My life is deeply centered around my postgraduate research and the preparation of my PhD thesis, which I am incredibly passionate about. My academic pursuits are a core part of me, and I am highly devoted to my work. Outside of my research, I live a very peaceful, quiet life. I find immense pleasure in reading good poetry and listening to soulful music, particularly jazz, soul, and blues. My ideal evening would be sharing a thought provoking and compassionate verbal sparring with my partner.
About her ideal match
I deeply admire a softly spoken man who possesses genuine emotional intelligence and has done his inner work. I am drawn to intellectual depth, a love for history, art, and culture, and a shared appreciation for equity over strict equality in a relationship.
I absolutely cannot stand anger or arrogance; a calm temperament is a non-negotiable requirement for me. I also do not tolerate dogmatic, rigid approaches to faith. Having chosen Islam independently, my relationship with God is deeply personal. I appreciate gentle, loving counsel, but I do not tolerate being preached to or controlled under the guise of religion.
Because I am a highly analytical individual, I need a man who is intrigued, rather than intimidated, by a woman’s sharp wit and intelligence. My partner must be someone who understands that true masculinity goes beyond what trends urge men to follow. He does not need to announce himself, he is secure and comfortable not being the centre of attention.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Enfield, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
26 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 2" (157cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Ask me later | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Maybe | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Never | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Student | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
Albanian/Kosovan | |
Other languages: |
English; Other | |
Religion: |
Muslim |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district EN3 (Enfield) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
29 - 48 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 9" (174cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
Maybe | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never | ||
Education: |
Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Muslim |
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More about her
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Independent; Outspoken; Sarcastic; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Humility; Humour; Self-control |
Fashion sense: |
Classic (My tastes echo long-established norms) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Black |
Date activities: |
Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Jazz |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction; Sci-Fi |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Sci-Fi |
Movie preferences: |
Comedy |
Interests: |
Music; Politics; Pottery; Reading; Singing; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Horse Riding; Walking |
Food: |
Indian; Italian; Japanese; Thai |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |